Your First Month of Couples Counseling
The first few sessions are an assessment. Expect questions about your history as a couple, the cycle you tend to fall into during conflict, each partner's background and what you each hope for. Your therapist will then share what they've noticed and suggest a focus, so you both know the plan.
Sessions are structured so each of you has time to speak. If a conversation starts to escalate, your therapist will step in and slow it down, which is a normal part of the process.

